Ok, so this man was 20 years older than me, which may seem like quite a stretch but we were just suited to one another. He was married but no longer with his wife, instead of going through the divorce process they just decided to stay married and friendly with one another. He was totally honest with me from the moment we met inside an upmarket bar in the centre of the city. We talked for ages sitting on the high bar stools and straining to hear one another over the music. As the night went on we decided to head back to his apartment, it was a bright apartment with an amazing open plan design. He had the most magnificent oak bed with beautiful white bed sheets, we talked over a glass of red wine and then he stripped my clothes off and took me into the bedroom.